The book that has sold tens of thousands of copies is now revised and expanded, including new sections about analingus, feminism and men, how to support your bisexual girlfriend, polyamory and other relationship styles, a new sexual workout, and more. This book will change your sex life!

“Let’s face it: straight men find lesbianism intriguing, and this extremely helpful manual will appeal to their erotic curiosity as well as their desire to please women partners.”

Martha Cornog, Philadelphia, PA

For men, the intimate workings of the female body have long remained one of the great mysteries of the universe. What gives her the most pleasure? Where should you be touching her – and how? Fortunately, there are some people who can offer men the empirical knowledge gained from a lifetime of pleasing women – and getting pleased by them. This frank, frolicsome, and wonderfully illuminating book draws on the sexual advice and sex secrets of lesbians to help men become better lovers. A groundbreaking dialogue between straight men and gay women, and an erotic look inside the often hidden world of lesbian sex, Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men reveals a whole new approach to pleasure for men and the women they love. At the same time, this book proves that while sex is something we all do naturally, a little focused effort – and a few simple lessons – can open up a whole new world of enjoyment.

What people are saying…

“Let’s face it: straight men find lesbianism intriguing…”

“Reversing the formula of Dan Anderson and Maggie Berman’s Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man (HarperCollins, 1997), Goddard and Brungardt do the job even better. Let’s face it: straight men find lesbianism intriguing, and this extremely helpful manual will appeal to their erotic curiosity as well as their desire to please women partners. Goddard, a sexuality educator, and Brungardt, a health journalist, tackle the basics of female sexual response, kissing, breast play, “finger love” and “hand love,” oral sex, and “ins and outs”–plus sex toys, S & M, body-image issues, birth control, and sexual abuse. The book is well written, comprehensive, and lighthearted, incorporating good advice about communication and safer sex.”

-Martha Cornog, Philadelphia, PA

“The best thing since sex therapy!”

“Lesbian Sex Secrets For Men, by J. Goddard and K. Brungardt, is an amazing work that has already aided my relationship! I had heard that the book was coming out in May and I thought it might be good for me as well as my male partner. So, last week I bought the book and found it to be the best thing since sex therapy! […] I think this book is particularly strong due to its detailed instructions. It provides exact information in a no nonsense manner while also being sensitive to people’s ideas about sex. […] More than anything, I want to tell people that although the content may seem racy, it is about time we got a book that is direct and honest. The stories of the women and men in the surveys are the book’s best asset. Hearing people with familiar problems is a great comfort. So, in conclusion I would say this is the sex book of the 21st century. Move over “The Joy of Sex”!”

Amazon reviewer

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