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Sex Is Power Exchange
If there is one thing that is clear in our current state of affairs, it’s the undeniable link between sex and power.
Sex always involves power exchange & yet when the power dynamics of sex are not acknowledged, we can end up feeling inauthentic and powerless.
We all live under patriarchy and it harms not just women, but all of us, in ways we often fail to see.
Learn How to Create Juicy Sexual Chemistry
Power Play in the bedroom is sexy AF. So How do we play with power, explore power, give up power in a way that feels honorable?
Kick Patriarchy Out of the Bedroom
Our entire understanding of sexuality has been researched/determined/modeled by men and applied to women. And our understanding of power as “power-over” makes it hard to allow ourselves to play with power sexually. Let’s turn the tables.
Explore Sexy Power Dynamics
Build sexual power explicitly instead of in an underhanded way. Create agreements for how to play with your sexual power with partners that is hot for both of you.
Hello, I’m A’magine.
As a young grad student, I remember going to my first professional sexuality conference, and there were some keynote speakers on kink and BDSM. As I listened to their presentations, I got all kinds of funny feelings inside of me and was totally lit up about exploring this part of me. I couldn’t stop thinking about it, and started to dabble a little bit with my then girlfriend.
The next year, freshly single, I went to the same conference and met a butch top who was confident, sexy and self-possessed–and I knew she could show me more than a thing or two about playing with power. We started dating and we lived in different east coast cities so that meant a lot of phone time, which gave me time to practice dirty talk without being watched, even when I felt kind of silly. She asked me pointed questions about my desires and didn’t let me off the hook. I got to drill down into what I wanted, and she taught me how to negotiate play.
And then we played. We would spend whole weekends together playing and she popped so many of my cherries, I couldn’t possibly count them. I learned what it felt like to submit and bottom to someone and she got me to do all kinds of things I had never dreamed I’d be into. I also learned to top by being topped by such an expert player. She took play seriously, understood safety and was a naughty sadist. I didn’t get to top her, but when I started topping other people, I knew how to stretch into this very strong side of myself and “run the fuck,” as my mentor Betty Dodson would call it.
Today, I remain pretty switchy, meaning I like to top and bottom. I would not have learned that without all the exploration of power I did. It prepared me and uncovered parts of me that were always there, just waiting to come out and play. We often learn what we like and don’t like by trying things on, dancing in unknown parts of ourselves and finding something new to uncover.
Women are trained to follow the sexuality of men; and sexual ideas are still promoted that center men and men’s experiences and extrapolate it to all of us. There are deeply oppressive sexual dynamics that still reverberate in the way we approach sex, and in our experiences of our bodies, our pleasure and our intimacy with others, and this affects people of all genders.
IN THIS VIRTUAL, INSTANT-ACCESS CLASS, YOU’LL LEARN
.EXPLORE HOW TO PLAY WITH POWER
and power exchange within sex in a way that feels honorable
.RECOGNIZE WHEN UNHEALTHY PATTERNS OF DOMINANCE/SUBMISSION
show up in your sexual life non-consensually
.IDENTIFY HOW WOMEN ARE TRAINED TO FOLLOW THE SEXUALITY OF MEN
to the detriment of them and of their partners (no matter what gender)
.IDENTIFY AT LEAST 5 EXAMPLES OF HOW CULTURAL IDEAS AND SYSTEMS OF OPPRESSION
hold you back in interpersonal and intimate relationships
.IDENTIFY 15 WAYS YOU GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER SEXUALLY
and learn how to do it on purpose because you want to
.DEVELOP SEXUAL PROCESSES THAT OPEN YOU UP TO FEEL SAFE,
pleasurable and powerful in your body and sexuality
LEARN THE INS & OUTS OF SEXUAL POWER PLAY THE RIGHT WAY.
Because we love what we do.
To Refine your skills.
WE MAKE LEARNING SEXY & FUN.
Knowledge this way.
As we take a frank look at how the power dynamics created for us by a long history of patriarchy hold us back and how to take control and shift our experience to one that is more fulfilling, pleasurable and powerful.
BE BOLD. KNOW THINGS
You get instant private access to this juicy class immediately after purchase.
Let the new adult sex-skill-learning begin!