“I feel disempowered in my relationship.”

“I’ve been hiding a lot of stuff.”

“Sex feels like a chore.”

“I was living two separate lives.”

“I’ve always given my power away.”

“I don’t want to waste my life doing this anymore.”

“I want to stop running.”

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To Women, Queer Folks & Couples 40+, do you want to:

🔥 Reignite your desire and reconnect to your sensual self?

🔥 Finally feel emotionally and sexually connected to your partner—or to yourself?

🔥 Stop shutting down and start speaking your truth without fear?

🔥 Break free from shame, silence, or past trauma that still lives in your body?

🔥 Leave (or stay in) a relationship from a place of clarity and sovereignty?

🔥 Come home to your body after years—or decades—of disconnection?

If you’re searching for a trauma-informed sex coach to help you reconnect with your body, reclaim your voice, and heal intimacy wounds, you’re in the right place. A’magine is a renowned sexuality coach for women and queer folks, offering private, confidential coaching for those navigating midlife transitions, disconnection, and distress around desire and pleasure.

Whether you’re partnered or solo, this is a space to rediscover your sensuality, speak your truth, and return home to yourself—without shame.

Private Sex Coaching with A’magine

Sex coaching bridges the gap between therapy and education, creating a space for exploration, learning, and transformation.

Depending on the issues that arise, my sessions utilize a combination of education, skills development, verbal support, guidance, conscious breathing, energy work, visualization and other modalities. This work is relational by nature and can be done remotely or in-person for live intensives.

My coaching programs are devoted to assisting you on your journey to sexual freedom, healing and awakening. This is sacred, nuanced, embodied work for women and queer folks who are ready to:

👉 Speak desires they’ve never said out loud.
👉 Metabolize past pain and find peace in their bodies.
👉 Explore sexuality beyond performance, pressure, or shame.
👉 Choose themselves, sometimes for the first time.

Whether you are in a long-term relationship, recently uncoupled, or exploring identity, pleasure and desire later in life—this coaching is a confidential container designed for your truth to come forward. It’s never too late to create the authentic sexual life you want.

Hello, I'm A'magine

For over 25 years, I’ve guided people through their sexual journeys, combining my NYU Master’s in Human Sexuality Education with training from pioneers like Betty Dodson, Midori and Barbara Carrellas. I am trained in Shadow Work, dearmouring, reiki, acupuncture, and other healing modalities. I am also a feminist organizer who has been speaking out about injustice and working for liberation for decades.

My approach integrates comprehensive education with body-positive, trauma-informed practices, and a social justice lens, reflected in my two Penguin Random House books and award-winning documentary At Your Cervix.

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What Past Clients Say...

“I thought I was here to talk about my relationship—but I finally said things I’ve never said to anyone. It opened something in me that had been closed for decades.”

— Coaching client, age 56

“Working with A’magine helped me trust my body again after years of disconnect. I finally feel like I belong to myself.”

— Client, 55, recently separated

“I’ve always been fearless at work, but in intimacy I shut down. I didn’t even realize how much I was performing until I stopped. This space helped me reclaim me.”

— CEO, 52, queer woman in long-term relationship

“Sex used to feel like something I had to do. Now it’s something I want to explore—on my terms.”

— Coaching client, age 50

“What I loved most was the honesty. I didn’t have to pretend I was okay. That alone was worth everything.”

— Entrepreneur, 49

“I came in feeling broken, and I left remembering I am powerful, sensual, and whole.”

— Past client, anonymous

Common Reasons People Work with a Sex Coach

Every client’s journey is unique, but these are some common reasons people seek sex coaching:

Desire & Pleasure

Reconnect with diminished sexual desire. Learn to experience more pleasure during intimate encounters. Understand your unique arousal patterns.

Communication & Connection

Develop skills to express desires and boundaries. Create more meaningful intimate connections. Navigate differences in desire with partners. Learn ways to talk about sex that are positive, healthy, and relationship-building.

Self-Discovery & Confidence

Explore your authentic sexual self beyond cultural conditioning. Build confidence in your body, attraction and sexual expression. Discover what truly brings you satisfaction, freedom and fulfillment.

Healing & Growth

Transform sexual shame into self-acceptance. Move beyond negative past experiences that have held you back. Release old patterns, and create a new sexual story in which you reclaim your birthright to sexual pleasure and agency.

Why Work with a Sex Coach in Midlife?

Many women reach their 40s, 50s, or 60s and find themselves feeling disconnected from their sexuality—especially after years of caregiving, chronic stress, trauma, or relationship challenges. Many people come into sexual identities in their later years that they want to fully explore and express. A’magine’s private sex coaching is designed to meet you exactly where you are. You don’t have to perform, pretend, or have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to start.

As a trusted sex coach for women and queer/GNC folks over 40, A’magine helps clients explore:

❤️‍🩹 Healing from sexual shame or avoidance
❤️‍🩹 Communication breakdowns around intimacy
❤️‍🩹 Navigating sex and desire after trauma
❤️‍🩹 Addressing ways that menopause can impact sexuality
❤️‍🩹 Rebuilding sensual connection in long-term partnerships
❤️‍🩹 Coming out or rediscovering identity in midlife

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this coaching for?

Private coaching is designed for queer folks and women—usually 40 and older—who are navigating challenges around desire, intimacy, pleasure, identity, relationship wounds, or unprocessed trauma. Many clients are high-functioning in other areas of life but feel sexually disconnected or even internally numb.

What’s the difference between sexuality coaching and therapy?
Sexuality coaching is not therapy. It is guided transformation rooted in embodiment, ritual, and empowerment. We focus on reclaiming your voice, desires, and boundaries. You don’t need a diagnosis to be here—just a desire to return to yourself and understand the vastness of your own sexuality. We look at the gaps in your own sexual knowledge and experience and what you are seeking and work towards creating the sexual connection and life you want.
Is this only for people in relationships?
No. Many clients are single or in the process of separating. Others are exploring new forms of identity or connection. This work centers you, not your relationship status. Sometimes people come to work on relationship issues that have simmered and arisen after years of not being addressed. Sometimes people are committed to finding out who they are as a sexual person and that is our true north.
What kinds of results do people get?
Nearly everyone learns to talk effectively about sexual needs which leads to better sex and getting what they want! Clients often experience more clarity, excitement, acceptance, desire, and connection—both with themselves and others. Some choose to deepen a relationship, others decide to lovingly let go. What unites them is a return to inner power.
How long is the program, and what’s included?
Each coaching journey is customized. Most clients begin with a 3- or 6-month commitment and receive:

  • Bi-weekly 1:1 sessions (virtual, safe, confidential)
  • Email support between sessions
  • Rituals, reflections, and personalized homeplay assignments and “soulwork”
  • Communication and embodiment tools
  • Shadow work or deeper integrative sessions (as needed)
  • Bonus classes (e.g., confidence, orgasm, desire, sexual skills)
What if I’ve experienced trauma or sexual violence?
This space is trauma-informed. You will never be asked to go where you’re not ready. Consent, safety, and pacing are at the heart of this process. Many clients have histories they’ve never spoken aloud—until now. Your needs are centered and while you are offered opportunities to take some risks and try things on in the work, you are always at choice for how you show up to it and participate.
Can I bring my partner to sessions?
Yes. In select cases, your partner can be invited into the work for shared sessions or communication and connection rituals. Many clients begin individually, then extend the work to their partners so they can work on things in their relationship.
Is everything confidential?
Yes. This is a sacred, private space. Nothing is ever shared without your permission.
What does it cost?
Packages start at $3,000. Longer-term options are available, with payment plans offered. A Sexuality Activation Call is the best next step to explore what’s right for you.
I’m not sure I’m ready… should I still book a call?
You don’t have to be ready. You just have to be honest. This call is confidential, with no pressure. Many clients say the Sexuality Activation Call itself was a turning point.

You're Not Broken. You're Just Ready for Something More

If you’re tired of being the strong one who always figures it out alone—this is your invitation.

READY TO EXPLORE PRIVATE COACHING?

Private coaching begins with a paid Sexuality Activation Call ($297, applied as credit toward any program).

To inquire about availability and next steps, email hello@amaginenation.com