We have been disconnected from sexuality for millennia as it became the greatest weapon by which to control people. Napoleon Hill dedicated an entire chapter in his popular book, Think and Grow Rich, to sexual energy, or what he calls, sexual transmutation. He was...
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The Sexual Year In Review 2022
It’s time for the Sexual Year in Review where we look at all the notable and newsworthy moments of 2022 regarding sexuality, gender, and gender equality. Most years are a mixed bag and 2022 was no different. There were some sweet victories and prideful moments....
5 Biggest Mistakes Couples Make With Sex: #4 – Blame & Guilt
#4: Letting blame and guilt slay your sex life (not in a good way) The fourth mistake couples make when it comes to sex involves blaming or guilting the other person. Blaming them for any sexual issues, as if blame and guilt will inspire their partner to “fix” it. It...
As Massive as the Fall of the Berlin Wall: The Biggest Sexual Revolution in the World
Until we are all free, none of us are free. Not that we have any illusion that we are free in the U.S. when it comes to gender. Nobody forces us to wear compulsory hijab. But we have countless double-standards and rights provided only in hierarchical tiers that keep...
The Cultural Set-Up for Bodily Violation & Non-Autonomy
From the very beginning, we were taught that we do not have rights or control over our own bodies. We are held by many, passed through hands, consoled while we cry, unable to communicate clearly what we need. Many of us may be born with health issues or disabilities...
Roe V Wade: The Heteropatriarchy Strikes Again
This week, there was a leaked Supreme Court opinion, written by Justice Alito, that indicates the Supreme Court will overturnThe Heteropatriarchy Strikes Again after 50 years of our right to safe abortion being the law of the land. Those of us who have fought for...
The Critical Ingredient the Personal Development World Misses
Sex, Money, Power & Justice Go Hand In Hand. Over a decade ago when I started my second and current business, as my 9-year relationship was ending and I was setting out to figure out what it would mean to truly stand on my own two feet again, I started a...
Two Sexual Abuse Operations Have Just Been Exposed
The Tower is falling. Last week two big organizations ostensibly dedicated to sexual evolution and skills building were brought to their knees. There are a lot of fakes–it’s too easy to hang a shingle and call yourself a sex coach, sex educator, tantra practitioner or...
What the USWNT, Black Panther & the 116th Congress have in common [love letter]
On Day One of the 116th Congress, as more women and people of color than ever before poured into the House chambers to do their newly appointed jobs representing the people of The United States, a palpable shift could be felt. Rep. Nancy Pelosi called it “The People’s...
The Good Girl vs. the Authentic Woman
It’s no secret that women are socialized to take care of everyone else. To question ourselves, and to take a back seat in business, money and sex. People teach us to be a "good girl". Where the "good girl" and people pleasing comes from As women, being second-class,...
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The Plight of the Sexually Inexperienced Adult
There is a common sexual experience that few people talk about and yet is more pervasive than most people realize.
Many adults are sexually inexperienced and this causes a slew of issues as they get further into adulthood, deeper into relationships, and well past the age when they “think” they should know.
How do we define “sexually inexperienced”?
First, we have to ask what it means to be sexually inexperienced.
Does it mean you’ve never had orgasms? You’ve only had a certain amount of sexual partners? How many? Certain types of partners? Haven’t explored sex with people of multiple genders? That you have only had certain types of sex? That you never had the sex education you know you need?
The Grief Beneath Liberation
The Surprising Grief at the Start of Sexual Healing There is a surprising grief and loss that often come up when people make the move to step into their full sexual power. When you start making your sexuality a priority, after decades of pushing it under the rug, off...
When Your Sexual Energy is Blocked
German-born physician-scientist Wilhelm Reich “was best known for his claims of a cosmic life force associated with sexual orgasm,” (CBS News). Because the U.S. was not ready for such a progressive, sex-positive idea, stemming from the power of orgasmic energy, his...
The Vulnerability of Healing
The day before my surgery, I got a Facebook note from Jr. High/High School friend, saying “It sounds like you are preparing for the worst. You are going to be okay!” My Sexy Nurses! This put a smile on my face! I was confused by this because I believed that I was...
The Illusion of Independence
As I wrote last week, my healing process has been really beautiful, made so by my own commitment to it, my planning and my community. But that did not come without effort and a major shift in perspective. I am someone who had to grow up very quickly and was always...
Why “Good Guys Finish Last”
As a sex coach, I’ve been talking to A LOT of amazing, available heterosexual women about what they want in a man over the last several years, and I think it’s high time I talk to you guys about it. I co-wrote Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men nearly 15 years ago to help...
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