I wrote my Master’s thesis on the connection between masturbation (attitudes and practices) and self-esteem and body image. No doubt there are many connections between these parts of our sexuality, and they play out in so many ways in people’s lives. Can you think of...
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Am I Sexually Broken?
For a long time, I've been hearing from women about this idea that they are sexually broken. And a lot of times they are welling up with tears. This is the first time they’ve ever voiced this to someone. It’s this idea that there is something about you that’s not...
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The Plight of the Sexually Inexperienced Adult
There is a common sexual experience that few people talk about and yet is more pervasive than most people realize.
Many adults are sexually inexperienced and this causes a slew of issues as they get further into adulthood, deeper into relationships, and well past the age when they “think” they should know.
How do we define “sexually inexperienced”?
First, we have to ask what it means to be sexually inexperienced.
Does it mean you’ve never had orgasms? You’ve only had a certain amount of sexual partners? How many? Certain types of partners? Haven’t explored sex with people of multiple genders? That you have only had certain types of sex? That you never had the sex education you know you need?
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The Vulnerability of Healing
The day before my surgery, I got a Facebook note from Jr. High/High School friend, saying “It sounds like you are preparing for the worst. You are going to be okay!” My Sexy Nurses! This put a smile on my face! I was confused by this because I believed that I was...
The Illusion of Independence
As I wrote last week, my healing process has been really beautiful, made so by my own commitment to it, my planning and my community. But that did not come without effort and a major shift in perspective. I am someone who had to grow up very quickly and was always...
But Sex Means Something Different to Me: A Hierarchy of Sexual Needs [Part 1]
Sex means different things to different people. In this post, we'll apply Maslow's popular and well-known psychological theory and come up with a hierarchy of sexual needs. It serves different purposes and needs for each person. Also, those needs can shift as our life...
Sexual Self-Actualization: A Hierarchy of Sexual Needs [Part 2]
Read part one It’s almost shocking that psychologist Abraham Maslow thought only 1% of people would self-actualize. He thought that "most of us function most of the time on a level lower than that of self-actualization". Source I think most people want to see...
Your Journey to Sexual Wholeness: Coming home to your sexual self
The journey to sexual wholeness is not linear. Sometimes it’s circuitous. For the last few weeks, we have been talking about the 7 gateways to sexual empowerment, these are the gates each individual will greet and make a choice to either walk through or go back on...
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