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While there is still so much we don’t know about COVID, and still so much we really don’t know about sex, there are plenty of things we know that can assist us in this anything but chocolate and peanut butter combination that has many of us flatlining...
How many people spend their lives finding “the one”? Another romantic myth that is perpetuated by many spiritual belief systems and plain old romantic folks who can’t let go of this idea that if we search the earth for that perfect fit, everything else will fall into...
I am newly single after a good 10+ years of being in relationship. It’s like taking a great big gulp of air when surfacing from a long deep dive to the bottom of the ocean. It was beautiful under there and a little dark and sometimes scary, and up top awaits this...
We have many ways of marking our lives in meaningful ways. As a ritualist, I find ways to ritualize many things in my life and relationships. I find the New Year to be an introspective holiday, although a good party is definitely welcome fun! We're almost done with...
People like to hide. We hide all the time and are scarcely conscious of it. We hide in our speech. We hide at work. We hide in the classroom. We hide in our relationships. We hide from ourselves. It requires so much energy to hide, so why are we hiding? We are so...
Facebook, as with other social marketing websites, targets its users for certain kinds of advertisements—this is smart and makes good business sense. I keep seeing this ad come up on my page titled “Make Him Fall for You.” Seeing that this is obviously meant to be a...
Attacks on reproductive rights are attacks on sexuality. Frankly, I’m tired of a small anti-sex, anti-pleasure, anti-life minority imposing their outrageous sex-negative views on the rest of us. One only needs to visit the Indian temples of Khajaraho depicting ornate...
Often when I tell people that I am a sexuality educator they say, “Oh do you work with teens?” The implication, of course, is that teenagers are the only people who need sex ed. But actually, we ALL need it. “No.” I say, “I work primarily with adults...
Okay, so there was all this hype about a Rapture that was to happen on May 21, and how the world was going to end and all the sinners would suffer and the rest of the folks I guess, would float up to the heavens forever protected and loved by GOD. So in preparation I...
So many of us live in a constant state of lack. We won’t give to ourselves. We think we can’t have all we want. We think we don’t deserve it. Then we complain that we don’t have what we want and we feel deprived. Deprivation is not sexy. And it shuts us down....
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There is a common sexual experience that few people talk about and yet is more pervasive than most people realize.
Many adults are sexually inexperienced and this causes a slew of issues as they get further into adulthood, deeper into relationships, and well past the age when they “think” they should know.
How do we define “sexually inexperienced”?
First, we have to ask what it means to be sexually inexperienced.
Does it mean you’ve never had orgasms? You’ve only had a certain amount of sexual partners? How many? Certain types of partners? Haven’t explored sex with people of multiple genders? That you have only had certain types of sex? That you never had the sex education you know you need?
German-born physician-scientist Wilhelm Reich “was best known for his claims of a cosmic life force associated with sexual orgasm,” (CBS News). Because the U.S. was not ready for such a progressive, sex-positive idea, stemming from the power of orgasmic energy, his...
It’s no secret that women are socialized to take care of everyone else. To question ourselves, and to take a back seat in business, money and sex. People teach us to be a "good girl". Where the "good girl" and people pleasing comes from As women, being second-class,...
As a sex coach, I’ve been talking to A LOT of amazing, available heterosexual women about what they want in a man over the last several years, and I think it’s high time I talk to you guys about it. I co-wrote Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men nearly 15 years ago to help...
When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence. Helping people to build confidence is a huge part of my work with clients, and it’s a huge result of the work we do. So why do most people seem to lack...
We are in deep need of a return to intentional sexual initiation in our world. As our world changes and morphs at rapid pace, we are longing for the power of ritual. For wise teachings to anchor and root us in our highest aspects of self-evolution. We long for others...
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