We start our Bringing Sexy Back class by talking about the Sexual Ecosystem. What is a sexual ecosystem? Let’s think about what an ecosystem is: it’s an interconnected web of living things that support each other to create a living, thriving,...
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Dancing Around Sexual Vulnerability
I’m struck by how profound sexual vulnerability is for the change people are able to achieve in their lives and relationships. There are so many ways we run up against our vulnerability. We fight it because it feels tender and some might consider it “weak”—which...
Sex After Divorce
Divorce is a developmental stage of adulthood. Every adult who is in partnership will, at some point lose a partner to divorce or death and will have to find their way again. The question is: What will we create out of the rubble? What magic will open up? How will we...
Sex is a Skill
Most of us experience fumbly, awkward, unsexy early ventures into the forays of sexual pleasuring with a partner without sex skills. I certainly did. Why we don't learn sexual skills In a culture like ours, where we place so little emphasis on teaching sex education,...
How to Talk Openly About Sex
My path as an educator included earning a Masters in Human Sexuality Education. But you don’t have to go get a graduate degree in human sexuality to learn how to really talk openly about sex. Anyone who cares about having a fulfilling, meaningful sexual life. Anyone...
The Connection Between Fear & Sexuality
Most of us learn about sexuality in the context of fear. We were taught to be afraid of sexuality on some level: you might get hurt. You might get an STI. You might get pregnant. He might treat you badly. She might trap you. You might get raped. Most American sex...
What to do when sex dwindles in a longterm relationship
Anyone who has been in a relatively sober long-term relationship knows how challenging it can be to maintain a juicy sexual life over the long run. It's very common for sex to dwindle in a longterm relationship. Your sex life may or may not have been exciting and fun...
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The Plight of the Sexually Inexperienced Adult
There is a common sexual experience that few people talk about and yet is more pervasive than most people realize.
Many adults are sexually inexperienced and this causes a slew of issues as they get further into adulthood, deeper into relationships, and well past the age when they “think” they should know.
How do we define “sexually inexperienced”?
First, we have to ask what it means to be sexually inexperienced.
Does it mean you’ve never had orgasms? You’ve only had a certain amount of sexual partners? How many? Certain types of partners? Haven’t explored sex with people of multiple genders? That you have only had certain types of sex? That you never had the sex education you know you need?
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When Your Sexual Energy is Blocked
German-born physician-scientist Wilhelm Reich “was best known for his claims of a cosmic life force associated with sexual orgasm,” (CBS News). Because the U.S. was not ready for such a progressive, sex-positive idea, stemming from the power of orgasmic energy, his...

The Good Girl vs. the Authentic Woman
It’s no secret that women are socialized to take care of everyone else. To question ourselves, and to take a back seat in business, money and sex. People teach us to be a "good girl". Where the "good girl" and people pleasing comes from As women, being second-class,...
Why “Good Guys Finish Last”
As a sex coach, I’ve been talking to A LOT of amazing, available heterosexual women about what they want in a man over the last several years, and I think it’s high time I talk to you guys about it. I co-wrote Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men nearly 15 years ago to help...
5 Barriers to Sexual Confidence
When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence. Helping people to build confidence is a huge part of my work with clients, and it’s a huge result of the work we do. So why do most people seem to lack...
What is Sexual Initiation?
We are in deep need of a return to intentional sexual initiation in our world. As our world changes and morphs at rapid pace, we are longing for the power of ritual. For wise teachings to anchor and root us in our highest aspects of self-evolution. We long for others...
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