Read part one It’s almost shocking that psychologist Abraham Maslow thought only 1% of people would self-actualize. He thought that "most of us function most of the time on a level lower than that of self-actualization". Source I think most people want to see...
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Your Journey to Sexual Wholeness: Coming home to your sexual self
The journey to sexual wholeness is not linear. Sometimes it’s circuitous. For the last few weeks, we have been talking about the 7 gateways to sexual empowerment, these are the gates each individual will greet and make a choice to either walk through or go back on...
The Plight of the Sexually Inexperienced Adult
There is a common sexual experience that few people talk about and yet is more pervasive than most people realize. Many adults are sexually inexperienced. And this causes a slew of issues as they get further into adulthood and deeper into relationships. Well past the...
How Are Sex and Money Connected?
I've been asked over and over again, “How exactly are sex and money connected? In a myriad of ways. And if other people have those questions, you probably do too. The secret connection between sex and money It’s not always immediately apparent, but allow me to break...
What Does Sexual Power Actually Mean?
What do I mean when I talk about sexual power? There's been a lot of confusion around this. Someone once told me that having a women’s weekend called “Sex-Money-Power” sounds masculine. When I probed further, they said “power” is more of a man’s word and that women...
The Top 5 Pleasure Blockers
It’s hard for so many of us to feel true pleasure. We don’t allow ourselves to feel good. Sometimes pleasure blockers are the cause. It doesn’t really make any sense. Why? Why would we block ourselves from the pleasure and good feelings that are ours to have? If we...
How to Talk Openly About Sex
My path as an educator included earning a Masters in Human Sexuality Education. But you don’t have to go get a graduate degree in human sexuality to learn how to really talk openly about sex. Anyone who cares about having a fulfilling, meaningful sexual life. Anyone...
What Gets in the Way of Sexual Confidence?
I’ve spent years studying how sexual confidence works. I’ve found it’s the thing everyone wants the most and yet people don’t know how to develop it. And often don’t recognize their own unique confidence style. Here’s the thing about confidence: it is not one size...
The Connection Between Sexuality and Spirituality
The connection between sexuality and spirituality is simpler than we make it. Spirituality is our connection to our spirit, to the non-physical aspects of self. We grow our spirituality to grow as an eternal being, as a life force beyond this physical plane. Our...
When A Sex Goddess Claims Her Desire
So you wanna be a Sex Goddess? Be doted on and fonded over, rubbed and nourished, fucked and fed? Here is something to know about a Sex Goddess: she never feels bad about her desires and she has no reason to hold herself back. She is unabashed in her desires and she...
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The Plight of the Sexually Inexperienced Adult
There is a common sexual experience that few people talk about and yet is more pervasive than most people realize.
Many adults are sexually inexperienced and this causes a slew of issues as they get further into adulthood, deeper into relationships, and well past the age when they “think” they should know.
How do we define “sexually inexperienced”?
First, we have to ask what it means to be sexually inexperienced.
Does it mean you’ve never had orgasms? You’ve only had a certain amount of sexual partners? How many? Certain types of partners? Haven’t explored sex with people of multiple genders? That you have only had certain types of sex? That you never had the sex education you know you need?
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When Your Sexual Energy is Blocked
German-born physician-scientist Wilhelm Reich “was best known for his claims of a cosmic life force associated with sexual orgasm,” (CBS News). Because the U.S. was not ready for such a progressive, sex-positive idea, stemming from the power of orgasmic energy, his...

The Good Girl vs. the Authentic Woman
It’s no secret that women are socialized to take care of everyone else. To question ourselves, and to take a back seat in business, money and sex. People teach us to be a "good girl". Where the "good girl" and people pleasing comes from As women, being second-class,...
Why “Good Guys Finish Last”
As a sex coach, I’ve been talking to A LOT of amazing, available heterosexual women about what they want in a man over the last several years, and I think it’s high time I talk to you guys about it. I co-wrote Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men nearly 15 years ago to help...
5 Barriers to Sexual Confidence
When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence. Helping people to build confidence is a huge part of my work with clients, and it’s a huge result of the work we do. So why do most people seem to lack...
What is Sexual Initiation?
We are in deep need of a return to intentional sexual initiation in our world. As our world changes and morphs at rapid pace, we are longing for the power of ritual. For wise teachings to anchor and root us in our highest aspects of self-evolution. We long for others...
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